what-even-is-thiss:

You know what? I still think this fandom can keep calling itself a family. Just as long as we remember, as a friend of mine put it, even close to perfect families are extremely messy. Family is messy, community is messy, that’s just how the world works. If we’re a family let’s be an honest one. Not the kind that shoves our problems down and puts on a happy face for the neighbors.