during that first battle against the horde when Adora transforms into She-ra and she’s glowing the whole time she also acts very differently from herself; very like serious and powerful and intense. and after the fight she says to Glimmer that “it felt a little out of control last time”.
i firmly believe that there is a spirit of she-ra, the spirit thats been passed down for generations and needs a “host” (aka adora now), and that if Adora were to let go of all of her attachments like she was told to we would lose the Adora we know and she would fully become the spirit of she-ra- aka that fierce warrior we saw when she glowed